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How to Beat Being Cheated

There are few things more devastating in a relationship than discovering that your boyfriend has cheated on you. It doesn’t matter whether the relationship is months old or years old, that breach of trust can destroy your self-esteem and leave you wondering what to do next. If you’ve recently been cheated on, or even if you just suspect your man of cheating, here are some tips to help you deal with this painful situation (or prepare for the eventual fallout).

Step 1: Take some time!

The very first thing that you have to do when you hear the bad news is take some time to yourself to process everything. Emotions will be running high, and it’s easy to make a decision that you may find yourself regretting later when you’re under that kind of stress. If your boyfriend presses the issue, just tell him that you can’t talk to him until you’ve cooled off. If he’s respectful, he’ll back off – and if he’s not, then that should only make your next decision that much easier.

Step 2: Is he worth it?

A cheating boyfriend doesn’t have to mean the end of the line. Some men are compulsive cheaters who will break your heart again and again, but sometimes people just make stupid mistakes that they regret. There are a lot of things that can lead a person to cheat, whether it is that they are feeling neglected in the relationship or that they just got too drunk. While these things aren’t legitimate excuses, they are factors worth considering when trying to decide if the relationship is worth salvaging. Forgiving a one-time mistake may be worth it, but don’t bother asking yourself this question is this is the second or third time that a guy has cheated…

Step 3: Get to the Bottom of It

Building off of the last step, if you do decide to try and work through this situation, then you’ve got to get to the bottom of why he cheated. Only then  can you really make a final decision about what to do. It can be painful, but you have to talk to him about what caused him to cheat. Perhaps he’s not satisfied with the amount of intimacy in your relationship, in which case you have to decide if you’re willing to work more passion into things. It’s perfectly okay if you decide that’s not something you want to do – sexual compatibility is very important in any relationship, and if one partner’s sex drive is way higher than the others it can be very hard to make things work.

Of course, there are potentially dozens of different reasons for a guy to cheat. Once you’ve found the underlying reason, you have to decide whether it’s a problem worth fixing… or if you should just kick him to the curb

Is he Cheating? Catch him in the Act

Catch Your Man Cheating. It’s Easier Than you Think.

Do you think your man is cheating on you? Wish you had the funds (and guts) to hire a private investigator? You don’t need to waste your money on that. There are many other ways that you can catch your man cheating. Follow these tips to catch your man cheating on you:

1. Cell Phone Bill

Reading his cell phone bill is a sure fire way to get some evidence. Most cell phone bills list every call made and received. If you notice another number showing up a bit too frequently, it may be the other woman. Try to remember the last time he popped out to the store – did he call that number then? If you are pretty sure it’s another woman, call the number and see who it is – just be prepared with a story if you accidentally call his boss at home.

2. Set a Trap

Most men will stray when they know you are definitely not around. (I.e. on a business trip or a camping weekend with the girls). Tell him you’re leaving town, pack your bags, but don’t go any further than your girlfriend’s house up the street. Ask your girlfriend to come along, and play private detective for the weekend. See where he goes, or if he has anyone over.

3. Digital Recorder

You can buy a voice-activated digital recorder for a pretty cheap price at any big electronics store. Most of them have over 500 hours of recordable time. Hide the recorder under his seat in the car, or his office if you can, and you will have everything he says on tape. You may catch him making plans over the phone, or better yet – catch them talking together.

4. Keystroke Logger

These are also available at most electronics stores. You can install them on his computer and it will log everything he types – including his passwords. Once you have his passwords, you have access to all communication he does online.

5. Credit Card Bills

Credit card bills and ATM slips can also offer good evidence. Is he suddenly taking out more money than usual? Was he supposed to be working late the night that you see a credit card charge at a nice restaurant downtown? Keeping track of where he claims he is going and checking it against his credit card bill will help you catch your man cheating on you.

But It’s Expected That I Cheat

Everyone Cheats Then – Don’t They?

There are many clichés about when cheating is cheating – and when cheating is just…? Help me out here.  If it’s not cheating, I’m not sure what it is.  If couples don’t clearly define what cheating is to them, there may be some grey areas.  Some people feel that in the following circumstances cheating isn’t really cheating – and it’s almost expected.  You may agree or disagree, but here is what I think:

  • The Revenge F%$@

This is a common excuse.  Your partner cheated on you.  You stayed together, and now the opportunity arises for you to sleep with someone.  You don’t necessarily think it’s right, but you can’t help think “He slept with someone – why can’t I?”  While I can see how this might make you feel better in the moment – when will it stop?  If your partner has cheated on you and you have given him another chance, you should be working on rebuilding the relationship – not ‘getting even’ by sleeping with other people.  Next thing you know he’ll be out there getting even with you for this one.  It’s a vicious circle.


  • They’ll Never Know

You meet a guy at the bar one night who is on holiday.  He leaves tomorrow to go back to Greece, and he is dead sexy and asking you back to his hotel room.  He’s on a flight tomorrow morning, so there is no way your man would ever find out – so it’s okay, right?  Think what you like, but no matter how you sugar coat it – you’re still sleeping with another man – whether he knows or not.

  • I Was on Vacation

Part of traveling is experiencing the people too, right?  Of course – but you don’t necessarily have to experience how the local people have sex.  If the roles were reversed, and you were at home while he was on vacation – would you be okay with him ‘experiencing the locals’?


  • Girls Night Out!

A night out with the girls can often get wild – especially if your friends are all single.  It’s easy to get caught up in the flirtatious vibe of the night clubs when you’re out with your gal pals.  Light flirting is usually okay – depending how far you let it go.  Let him buy you a drink.  Let him tell you you’re beautiful.  But if you can’t go home and tell your boyfriend about it – it might be cheating.